Sunday, August 23, 2009

10 most unexpected consequences of being online

1. Fall in love.

2. Win the lotto that pops up.

3. Find your family tree, that could turn out to be the 'Adams Family'. 

4. Find the 'greatest' job.  

5. Lose weight easy tips for 'free'. 

6. Get rich 'quick'.

7. Download songs for free, that is actually illegal.

8. Building a social life on Facebook can destroy your real friendships close to you.  

9.  Being on social networks during working hours can get you fired.

10. Being online,  you have the whole world in your home.

Every day is a good day

Every day can be a good day for you. It all depends on you as individual. You can wake up every morning and decide for yourself that today will be a good or bad day. You can make every day a good day.

I have two tips that will help you to bright up your day a little more

- Start your day with your favourite song. 
- Get up early and go for a run, not in the gym but outdoor so that you can inhale the fresh air.

It is difficult to believe that every day can be a good day. But it can be. Think about it. To go out to work and to come back the evening alive is a good reason to think that today was a good day. If you have a work and you get paid for it, than every work day is a good day because you get paid for it. Every day that you don't work and just enjoy the day, is also a good day because it is a day off that you can enjoy with friends or your family.

I believe that every day can be a good day.

Our greatest strengths are our greatest weaknesses

We all have our strengths and weaknesses in life. 

The fact that our greatest strengths are our greatest weaknesses is a little bit scary for me. This statement makes us as very vulnerable in life. On earth where we are, people are mean. People like to know what weaknesses other people have and use for their benefit.

I think we all have one weakness that we all share, and that is money. Money can be good. Money gives us power and with lots of money we feel strong. We have strength. But it is a great weakness. People will do anything for money. Money owns us. Some people does not want to know it, but they are just in denial. 

Loyalty is also a strength that can be turned into a weakness. We will do anything for our loved ones. We will even threw our values away to be loyal and support our love ones, and it is good but it is a weakness.

Each and every person have their own great strengths that are their greatest weaknesses. But money and loyalty we all have.  

Feelings follow behaviour

The Oxford dictionary define feelings as a power to feel: mental or physical awareness. Behaviour is the way you behave.

The words 'feelings' and 'behaviour' follow one another. It is just a matter of which one will follow the other one first. Both these two words plays a major role in life. Feelings and behaviour can tell us more about people than words. Actions talk, and through actions we see feelings and the way we act, is the way we behave. 

Behaviour can not operate alone. Behaviour is linked to our feelings. Every act we do, we do with a reason and with our feelings. It is so easy to let feelings follow behaviour. Behaviour we can see, hear, feel and the moment we observed behaviour... feelings follow.


We can not always control our feelings, but I believe we can control our behaviour. It is not bad to let your feelings follow behaviour, but we must make sure we are always in control of our actions. 

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

It is better to practice a little than talk a lot

Words come and go, but actions can't never be erased. People prefer to remember actions, even if its so little that you need a magnifier to see it. Words have also an influence on people, but actions talk louder and harder. 

I don't say, we must stop talking from now on and make use of hand signs. We must plan and start focusing on practice more and less talk. Turn words into actions. Practice what you say. 

A good example of just talking and not practice that much is what I'm doing right now. I must write something about this matter and it must be more than 200 words. I practice a little at least. But can you benefit from what I'm saying? 

To talk a lot you can't gain experience, only when you're learning a new language. But to practice a little means much more than just talk a lot. Actions are more powerful than words. People act on actions. We can learn from words, but a few words can also means a lot. To many words can be to many information. We must start focusing on the little practice and with a little practice on the little practice, we will maybe talk less and do more. 


Monday, May 11, 2009

It is a poor idea to lie to yourself

Do we lie to ourselves? 

Are we going to be honest with ourselves or are we going to lie again to ourselves about the answer or this question?

Let us admit, we do lie to ourselves and I think for a change we must be honest. It is a poor idea to lie to ourselves. It is in our nature to lie, especially to ourselves, but think about it. We know the truth, but we still lie to ourselves. The worst part is that we believe the lie. 

We, the human beings think that we are so clever, but to lie to ourselves we show the exact opposite. Actually it is more, we try to lie to ourselves. It is the poorest idea. Are we that bright as we think? I don't think so. 

We try to get away from the truth but we can't. We must face the truth and deal with it. Most of the lies that we lie to ourselves is our fault. Just the word lie makes me sad, and if we 'believe' all the lies we sell to ourselves, where will we end up? 

I think we must stand up against ourselves and fight the poor idea to lie to ourselves. We must make sure, when we pick up the mirror, we don't see a liar. What we see in the mirror, is how other people experience us.

Friday, May 1, 2009

No all who wander are lost

According to the Oxford Dictionary, the word "wander" means, go from place to place with no settled route or purpose.

The world is pretty big and there are many different cultures, animals and also different people, with different personalities in our world. People have different goals, achievements and some people are lost. . . or must I rather say wandering?

People over the world mostly think that all who wander are lost. I feel that there aren't really a right or wrong answer. The answer would differ for each and every person. We all are different. We al want to be excepted for who we are and I'm sure the wanderers in our world would also like it to be excepted for who they are. We will maybe not understand their decisions, but we can respect it.

Some people may not go from place to place with no purpose, but they can wandering. They can wandering at their job, at their home. People with a goal and mission can also feel lost and alone, without going from place to place. Every person's story is sealed in a book. We will never know each and every person and their story. We must except the people around us. It does not matter if they wandering or not.